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| Hello friend, A man with multiple romantic partners is often celebrated as a “player” or dismissed with a knowing wink. A woman in the same situation? She faces social ostracism, reputation damage, and sometimes even physical danger. This isn’t just about dating – it extends to every aspect of life. Take career choices, for instance. A man prioritising work over family might face mild criticism, but a woman doing the same is branded a “bad mother.” Even in dress codes, men’s “inappropriate” attire rarely affects their professional credibility, while women’s clothing choices can impact their career trajectories and personal safety. The disparity becomes starker in matters of marriage and divorce. A divorced man often receives sympathy and encouragement to “start fresh,” while divorced women face stigma and social isolation. Men who remain single by choice are “bachelors,” while single women of a certain age are viewed as problematic or defective. Even in matters of mental health and emotional expression, men’s outbursts might be excused as “having a bad day,” while women expressing similar emotions are often labelled “hysterical” or “unstable.” At Naija Feminists Media, we’re committed to exposing these double standards through education and dialogue. Our community provides a safe space for challenging these conservative narratives that disproportionately burden women. With love and solidarity,The NFM Team. |
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| “Who will lend us money now?” How domestic violence robbed Kokumo streetBy: Simbiat Bakare “I miss her! I really miss her!” Olajumoke Falade, a resident of Kokumo Street, said as she counted the naira notes in her hands. She frowned at the boy she had sent to collect the N15,000 at a Point of Sale (POS) vendor. The vendor had charged a N600 fee for the N15,000. While strangers might need an introduction to who the “her” Ms Falade was referring to, the people around her needed no explanation. Naima Adegoke, whom everyone in the area fondly called “Alhaja,” was beloved on Kokumo Street, a suburban community in Aguda-Ogba. A petite, cheerful woman, Alhaja was usually clad in a long purple or blue hijab, a bag stuffed with cash hanging from her shoulder. In late 2022, when naira notes were scarce due to the Central Bank of Nigeria’s plan to cease the use of old notes, people would gather around Alhaja, waiting on their turn to collect naira notes. Old, young, and middle-aged would hurry towards her for cash—it was almost like she was sharing a free Christmas meal. But she wasn’t. Alhaja was the only POS operator in the area who charged a fair percentage. Her set-up was simple: a plastic table, a single chair, and an umbrella to keep the sun away. On the table was her POS machine and a worn-out book populated with numbers. Until recently, she could be seen counting cash and chatting with customers on most evenings. Now, the spot is empty. Read more on how domestic violence robs communities of the impacts and contributions of women. |
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| On February 14, 2025, we hosted a virtual discussion on the ongoing issue of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) in Nigeria. Experts highlighted that FGM persists due to deep-rooted cultural beliefs and weak law enforcement. Survivor Ololade Ajayi shared her traumatic experience, shedding light on the severe health impacts. With legal practitioners calling for stricter penalties and more effective implementation of existing laws, while journalists emphasised the importance of increased media coverage and community engagement. This event reinforced our commitment to collaborative efforts in education, advocacy, and policy enforcement to protect girls and women from this harmful practice. |
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| Become a part of our effort for social change! We are in search of volunteers for Art Illustration. If you’re interested in contributing, please email us at mail@naijafeministsmedia.org.ng.The Sophie Uzodimma-Onovo Women’s Undergraduate Scholarship 2025 offers you a chance to pursue your dreams. Apply now with VOWE Foundation!DOHSCares Foundation will offer free medical check-ups on March 8, 2024, as part of its #ChampionHer 3.0 Drive. Remember to participate! |
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