Learn to Challenge Norms that Enable Male Violence

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As you may know, there has been a series of disturbing stories with men in power abusing girls. If you’re not aware, quickly check some of these stories involving police officers assaulting minors. It’s disheartening that issues of male violence against women in Nigeria persist, with perpetrators often escaping accountability. Many men feel justified in assaulting women, confident that societal norms and systemic failures will shield them from consequences. This cruelty is deeply entrenched in patriarchal values that diminish the worth of women’s lives and experiences.
The complexity of this issue intensifies when these individuals travel abroad. Acts of violence that were previously ignored or minimised can lead to serious legal repercussions in other countries. Some men express astonishment, claiming that women “grow wings” upon leaving Nigeria, as if the laws protecting them suddenly become insurmountable obstacles. This perception reveals a profound misunderstanding of the gravity of domestic violence and the legal protections available elsewhere.
When incidents are reported and lead to the arrest of violent offenders, they are often dismissed as mere “little fights,” trivialising the pain and trauma endured by women. These narratives reinforce harmful stereotypes and perpetuate a cycle of violence. This dismissive attitude not only undermines the severity of the crime but also discourages survivors from seeking help.
Addressing this issue requires a comprehensive approach, including education, legal reform, and community engagement. Raising awareness about women’s rights and the consequences of violence is crucial. Fortunately, it’s Media and Information Literacy Week, and you can educate yourself on the many ways male violence harms women and how to ensure gender justice. We have documented many of the incidents on our website.
It is only when we are committed to learning and doing the right thing that we can collectively challenge norms that allow male violence against women to persist.
With love and solidarity,The Naija Feminists Community.
Prostitution and Marriage are not interchangeable
By: Tobiloba Akanni 
The statement “All of us na ashawo,” remains a theoretical observation and musing, but no non-prostitute who says so actually considers herself a prostitute. The pervasive objectification of women in society underscores the necessity for feminism, which stands in contrast to this reality. However, to render such cases of objectification of women, whether through words, labels, or actions, as if they hold any truthful value by declaring all women prostitutes or all romantic relationships as part of a sex trade undermines the feminist cause. 
This does not deny that romantic relationships and marriages, particularly with men, can perpetuate harmful beliefs and actions towards women. Rather, it highlights the fact that much of society is prejudicial against women. Feminists must adopt a stance that humanises women, allowing for a positive perspective on love and marriage while challenging oppressive norms.
Continue to read about how marriage and prostitution are not interchangeable.
We are excited to inform you that we have partnered with BONews Service to amplify the voices of women with disabilities. The collaboration will illuminate their unique experiences and challenges, promoting more awareness and advocacy. Together, we are committed to driving meaningful change and fostering a more inclusive dialogue around women with disabilities’ rights and contributions.
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Naija Feminists Media is still receiving literary submissions for the #16DaysofActivism campaign addressing male violence against women. Hurry and send your poems, essays, and other creative pieces by October 30, 2024. The Shifting Democracies Reporting Fellowship is seeking female journalists to explore changing governance. If you’re passionate about investigative journalism, the two-year programme will offer you training, mentorship, and global publishing opportunities. If you run a women-led early-stage fintech startup, consider applying for the Fintech Innovators Pitch Programme. Participants will benefit from intensive training, mentorship, and the opportunity to pitch to top investors.

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